Lagos Agency Stresses Continuous Consent in Marriage, Cautions on Sexual Misconduct
The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency has reaffirmed that consent in marriage must be continuous and cannot be assumed after the wedding. In a recent statement on its official X page, the agency emphasized that intimacy should always be a mutual decision, not an obligation, and that respecting a partner’s boundaries is vital for maintaining trust and safety in a relationship.
The agency highlighted that valid consent must meet the F.R.I.E.S. criteria: Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific**. It clarified that silence or hesitation does not imply consent, and either partner has the right to withdraw consent at any time—even during intimacy—requiring immediate compliance from the other party. “A healthy marriage is built on mutual agreement, not pressure,” the statement noted.
Additionally, the agency addressed situations where a partner expresses discomfort only after an intimate act has occurred. While this may not qualify as withdrawal of consent during the act, it could still indicate misconduct if initial consent was given under coercion, fear, or misinformation. “The best practice is to consistently ensure your partner’s comfort throughout,” the agency advised, stressing the need for clear and ongoing communication.
The statement aims to raise awareness about respectful marital relationships, preventing sexual misconduct, and fostering mutual trust and safety.
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